Always wipe the seat.
20 January 2017, by We Are Family
We were that couple who cleaned and cleared as we went about our day, we both like a tidy home and even when we may have been feeling a little lazy or just not in the mood we still recognised that the other had expectations that needed to be respected.
We knew that bringing children into our home was going to change things and indeed understood that our home was never going to be the same again - and we were both OK with that. It's reassuring to see that we are still OK with it 4 years later, in fact we are probably even more so now.
The perfect white walls are now covered in marks, the nice clean windows are smothered with goodness knows what, the wooden floor - chipped, scratched and marked -and do you know what? NONE of it matters.
In fact we often find ourselves smiling as we see a distinct hand print somewhere surprising and unexpected or a mark in a piece of furniture or an ornament we realise that we once valued FAR too much.
However there is ONE thing we struggled with as indeed our sons continue to, but for entirely different reasons- pee on the toilet seat.
Our struggle originally was to remember to check before we sat down (after decades of always having a clean seat - guaranteed - that was not as straight forward as it may sound) and we soon discovered that failing to do so had consequences that were far from pleasant.
Once we got to grips with that our struggle changed to trying to get our heads around why it was SO difficult for our sons to remember to lift the seat or at least to wipe up after themselves if they failed to.
Because that really is a struggle for both of them, as is apparently remembering to flush.
Our conclusion is that going to the toilet is way down their list of priorities and while they are busy playing or watching TV or generally running around, any need to pee is pushed to the back of their mind until it becomes an absolute necessity and then it it done as quickly as possible so that they can dart back to what ever they had dragged themselves away from.
Consequently in the rush, lifting the seat or wiping away the evidence is just too trivial a matter to hold them back - even for the briefest of moments,
In the grand scheme of things Is that such a big deal?
I can see that we used to think so, but as time has gone on we have stopped nagging them and getting cross at them and now just gently - but constantly remind them - which is clearly better for all of us.
And of course, we ALWAYS remember to wipe the seat first.
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