12 May 2017, by We Are Family
Four years ago today you arrived in our home twinkly and tiny and so brave under the circumstances... Or did we misread that? In retrospect you must have been flooded with fear. Your little body stuck in a massive terrifying moment that went on and on. And because we didn't know you, we assumed arrogantly that your smile was a symptom of calm and acceptance. A sign that we were in fact good parents already who had a good grasp of your needs. I'm so sorry my darling for our naivety. I'm so sorry I hadn't a clue about the trauma you must have suffered. I wish I could go back and cuddle that baby girl with the insight I have now. But I can't. So here we are four years on. Four years of waking up to your chuckle. Four years of wiping way your tears Four years of being called mummy. Four years of loving you so much it hurts that I'm not perfect at it. Four big years. I can remember trying to look forward in time to the little girl you would become but it seemed impossible, scary even. Like the 5 year old you would be a whole new little person I would have to meet and get to know all over again. What if you were harder to win over than the baby in front of me? Who in fact were you going to be? And yet here we are 4 years on. You are simply you. A bigger, brighter more articulate version of that baby we brought home. It's miraculous how children grow and develop so quickly and there is so much more of of it to do. So much more to look forward to. Thank you for our four years.
Best years of my life so far.
Here's to many many more my beautiful daughter.
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