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A Banana, 3 Clementines, a bowl of grapes and 4 Kiwis

We never told the boys that the 'meat' was not real and not knowing the difference they were wonderfully oblivious. However, we respected that they were old enough to have an opinion of their own and we had no intention of forcing our beliefs onto them, consequently when eating outside of the house they were free to eat whatever, so at school, in restaurants and at family and friends they eat meat aplenty.

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Follow up: A birth mum shares her thoughts

I am a birth mom and I can’t say that I agree that its “always adoptive families” that “action, chase, fight for the best outcome of the child”. The agency I went through has done a lot to help and has a strong desire to help in whatever way they can for all three parties involved. Also, I have reached out, expressed feelings, respected the wishes of the adoptive parents and I have been rejected. It is true that every family is different. I have so much respect for you and other families that try to maintain contact with birth parents for the benefit of your child." 

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I’m your baby, mummy

Recently, our son’s foster mum was visiting with her son. A much-loved, plum and delicious boy of six months. We all hunched over the little miracle, admiring his being. I thought it a lovely moment and added: ‘When you were this little you lived with Rosa, my friend.’ My 3 year-old looked me in the eye and corrected me:

‘I am your baby, mummy. I was with you.’

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Flowers

I previously wrote a blog about the break down of the long term foster placement and guardianship of our sons older sister, I ended by saying that we hoped that the the new placement the sister had been moved to was a good one and would offer her the security she so deserves.

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Ask the 8 year old

She was just 8 at the time and she was being asked if she wanted to stay in the home she had known for - at that point - over 2 yrs with people who cared for her and offered her the only real security she had ever really known - at the expense of staying with her brothers. Or to continue to wait for... well, the totally unknown.

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Any Advice Gratefully Accepted

When I adopted my daughter I agreed to annual direct contact with her birth father. I didn't want her to hit teenage years with all the possible angst that that can entail and ask why I wouldn't let her see him when there was no reason for me doing so other than 'I didnt want to share you'.

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Flummoxed, Perplexed and Bewildered

Forgive my bluntness, and I'm sorry this blog won't be more entertaining but I'm desperate for information so I've come here to get it off my chest and let it all hang out…
We brought our beautiful three year old daughter home 2 years ago as a 13 month old baby and were informed she was the youngest of five (to our knowledge) siblings and half siblings dotted around the country. All have the same biological mother but apparently (again - to our knowledge) one of them may well also have the same biological father making this a full sibling.

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You Won't Ever Leave Me Will You?

We know they are happy, we know they have attached, we know they feel like we are a family. Yet regardless of all that we also know that our son's lives to date have taught them that nothing is for sure and that families are not permanent.

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