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Christmas

The Twelve Blogs of Christmas #11: Memories of Christmases Past

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I have not always been okay with my lack of memory; it used to create an unsettling lack of self. I didn’t know who I was, because I didn’t have the tools to deal with all the bad things in my childhood. And in my respected, academic family it was preferred to sweep it under the carpet and uphold the illusion of a well-functioning family.

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The Twelve Blogs of Christmas #10: The most wonderful time of the year.

By Adoption assessment, Becoming a family, Christmas, Family, Loss, Parenting No Comments

This is tough time of year for some people. Adverts telling us we need to buy this or that for our loved ones; tinsel and Christmas decorations adorn every nook and cranny; Christmas songs stream relentlessly through pipes in every shop and down the high street, telling us it’s the most wonderful time of the year. And for most of…

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